During the ceremony, Mr. Harris read a series of emails from friends “that filled the room with the wishes of our congregations,” said Ms. Lenz.
“The pandemic has been exhausting in every way and seeing the two find each other despite all the real and ridiculous obstacles has brought such joy and joy to all I have told about them,” said Robyn Rime, one of Mr. Paskey’s close friends. “You have managed to go beyond what is going on in the world.”
When April 3, 2021
Where The Sea Ranch Chapel, Sea Ranch, California.
The clothing Almost every item of clothing was handmade by artisans, mostly in Europe, with the exception of Mr. Paskeys Utilikilt, which he wore with a Guatemalan cloth vest from a woman in Germany and a blouse. Her boots were handcrafted in Greece; hers were turquoise with a purple stripe; his were purple with a turquoise stripe. (Ms. Lenz’s hair is often dyed purple and turquoise, dyed even more brilliantly for the wedding.) The bride also wore a fairy crown made by a Spanish craftsman and adorned with antlers that were placed on a 3-D Printer was made of the white deer they saw together with a white felt coat with purple accents.
The promises In their vows they said, among other things: “Appreciate and enjoy your spirit and only ask that you be your authentic self; to testify with full acceptance of the radiant, imperfect beauty of that self, of who you were and who you are today and who you will become; and to be honest with you, with myself and with others and to hear the truth that you are telling me. “
The reception and after The next day, some family members and friends of Mrs. Lenz gave the newlyweds a surprising brunch outdoors in the Esherick Mini-Mod, a cabin on the Sea Ranch. On April 5, the couple left California – this time together – for Buffalo, where they now live.